Ah, yes, Gandhar, we're at that age - I'm 55, and I smoke too. I haven't been able to quit yet either, but hope to soon. Have to. We're at the age where we've got to quit doing the things we did for so long

I think it was Mickey Mantle who said 'if I knew I was going to live this long, I'd-a taken better care of my body'.
Hope you feel better, and come thru this fine Gandhar. You too, Charura - take care, don't let yourself get too stressed. Your dad's going to be a pain in the arse for a while - a heart attack can make you feel so vulnerable.
You both take care,
Rose